LaWanna Parker

Avoiding the Risk Means Surrendering the Reward

November 25, 20252 min read

For years, I lived in the quiet space between desire and fear. I loved writing, but I didn’t believe I was good enough. I told myself no one wanted to hear my stories, my lessons, or my heart. So I avoided the risk… and without realizing it, I surrendered the reward God was trying to give me.

Every unwritten page felt like a little piece of my purpose slipping through my fingers. I felt the nudge to share, to teach, to speak, to write, but fear kept me in the shadows. I convinced myself it was safer to stay silent.

But safe doesn’t build confidence.
Safe doesn’t strengthen resilience, and
Safe doesn’t activate transformation.

One day, something changed. I got tired of doubting myself. I got tired of shrinking. I got tired of letting fear write my story for me. And when I finally picked up the pen, something beautiful happened… I found me.

Today, I don’t write just for myself.
I write for you, the woman who has a dream tucked inside her heart and wonders if she’s enough. I write for the woman who has a story buried under years of doubt. I write for the woman who wants more but feels afraid to reach for it.

Because I know exactly what that fear feels like.
I also know the freedom that comes when you stop letting it rule you.

Here’s the truth:
Avoiding the risk means surrendering the reward.
And the reward isn’t always money or applause. Sometimes the reward is clarity. Healing. Community. Inspiration. Courage. A deeper sense of self-love. The joy that comes from showing up as your authentic self.

Your dream is calling you for a reason.
And it grows every time you take a step, even a tiny one.

So if you’ve been holding back your voice, your ideas, your creativity, or your story… consider this your gentle reminder: the world needs what you carry. Someone is waiting for your words, wisdom, experience, and your spark.

Take the risk, my friend.
Your reward is already waiting.

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"Dr. La Wanna Parker is an international award-winning author, dynamic speaker, and inspirational specialist who inspires others to overcome life's obstacles with courage and humor. Creator of 'Courage to Live Your Dream,' she inspires women to unlock their potential and accept their best selves."

LaWanna Parker

"Dr. La Wanna Parker is an international award-winning author, dynamic speaker, and inspirational specialist who inspires others to overcome life's obstacles with courage and humor. Creator of 'Courage to Live Your Dream,' she inspires women to unlock their potential and accept their best selves."

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